Have you ever had this experience?
Over the weekend, I got a chance to read a piece from a gay man that has been orally servicing another guy who identifies as straight. Perhaps you read it, too?
After reflecting on the situation and processing it all, I was reminded of a situation that happened to me when I was in college. I’m willing to be some of you can relate. Let’s see?
So, back in the day, when I was earning my undergraduate degree, there was a football jock who had a room at our colleges dormitory. His name was Pete and if I remember correctly, he was earning his bachelors to become a physical education instructor.
To make a long story short, we would occasionally chill out in his room. God, I can still remember it now because his place smelled like a combination of musty sox and Brute cologne. So freaking nasty (although some guys might find that hot).
At any rate, once in a while, we would end up hanging on his bed and watch movies. Nothing adult. More like really bad flicks that were playing for free (think ancient crap). Now don’t pin me down on this but if memory serves me, this usually happened on a Saturday night.
At any rate, what we would end up doing is popping boners. Nobody would say anything when this happened. Sometimes it would be me and often it would be Pete.
In time, one thing led to another and we started “spanking the monkey” so to speak (I’ve always found that term odd!). When this happened, it usually culminated in a release – for both of us. Sometimes it was timed and others, not so much.
We never kissed, did oral, cuddled or anything like that. There also weren’t any party favors being used – meaning no 420. And alcohol? Nope, that wasn’t part of the deal either.
Just individual JO next to one another. I never even touched him because I feared it would break our unspoken rule. It’s not like I didn’t want to though!
And did I mention he had a girlfriend at the time? Yep, he did. In fact, I know he is married now with a family.
Not long ago, I ran into him on Facebook. When I friended him, he didn’t accept my invite. Feeling rejected, I decided to send him a message via messenger. I got absolutely nothing back.
The weird thing is he’s friends with other people I knew from college. Maybe it is just me but I have a feeling he doesn’t want to be associated with me because of our Saturday night “fun” that happened so long ago.
Look, I can’t be sure of this but that is what my gut is telling me. All of this begs the question – one with an answer that likely doesn’t have a concrete answer.
If a straight guy masturbates with you, is he really straight?