In gay hook ups, isn’t there a protocol during oral for releasing?
A few days ago, I hooked up with a guy I met on the apps. What can I say – I wanted to get some fun in before the holidays.
You see, I usually stay with family for Christmas and New Year’s, which means I can’t do sh-t for an entire week.
Anyway, this dude I met was pretty hot. Think tall, dark, and Latin. Not that his age matters but according to his profile, he was in his mid-twenties.
Before meeting, our chat was about what one would expect. You know what I’m saying, right?
What are you into?
What turns you on?
What turns you off?
The back and forth went on just long enough for both of us to figure out we were looking to top. It’s not like the news was a deal-breaker though.
A long time ago, I learned that two tops can have amazing fun provided the ground rules are laid down in advance.
In other words, no saying one thing but really wanting another. In our case, we both agreed to do straightforward oral (mutual) and after nutting, we would call it a night.
Hey, sometimes NSA quickies like that is all one needs to get through a cold and snowy night.
At any rate – I ended up trotting over to his place. To my surprise, the guy looked even better than his pics, which were already hot.
I started off servicing him and then after a few minutes, he returned the favor. At some point, we ended up on his living room floor – 69.
Just a quick thought on that position.
If both people are the same height, it can be super fun. But if one guy is taller than the other (meaning by a lot) it’s a major challenge.
I’m mentioning this because as I said earlier, he was tall. I’m talking 6’5. I’m barely 5’10 with boots on so you can imagine how this might have looked.
Oh, I’d say we went at it for around 15 minutes – taking our time and enjoying ourselves. Well, at least until it happened.
Yep, my trick decided to call no joy and bust right into my mouth. He didn’t ask me if it was ok. Worse, there was no warning.
He just did it.
Honestly, I’m not a prude. Swallowing can be fun from time to time. But isn’t there something in BJ hook up protocol that forbids releasing without permission?
Maybe I’m old school. Who knows? It just seems like common sense to ask before … well, … unloading.
Here’s the really messed up thing. When I went to release, I did warn. Just as I was about to bust, he pulled my junk out of his mouth and let it squirt on his chest.
I won’t bore you with what happened next. It’s really not important. Let’s just say we both got our needs met and decided that in the future, we’d call upon one another should the need arise.
That said – I still want to know if I am missing something here. Is it OK to release during oral without warning?