I’m OK with it being a one-way street
I’ve got a roommate. His name is Chuck* and he’s 25. To the outside world, he’s completely “straight”. But alone, late at night, he transforms into something more curious.
Well, at least that’s the way I look at. Given how many times I’ve turned into “Count Suckula” [that’s his name for me], what else am I supposed to think, you know?
My friends ask me how all of this goes down (no pun intended). I mean hey – the guy is yummy hot. Between his short-ish beard, hairy abs and huge calves, I’m on cloud nine every time we do it.
So, I’ll tell you what I tell my friends: The 5 realities of servicing my curious roommate. Remember, this dynamic applies to my situation. Your experience may be completely different.
Check it out:
1. It’s always one sided
Maybe two or three times a month, I visit my roommates room and service him on his bed. It’s usually one sided. In other words, I work on him. He never reciprocates.
But here’s the thing – I am completely OK with this.
Some people may think that’s unfair. To my mind, it’s the other way around. I like doing this to guys so it’s a win-win for the both of us.
2. It’s never talked about
When we do our thing, it’s never talked about. In other words, we don’t sit around and chat about it later. Not in the immediate aftermath nor over morning coffee.
It’s just one of those things where the both of us know. Why does it need to be processed?
3. I’m cool with him dating girls
Chuck is pretty popular with the ladies. He’s dated several in the year and a half we’ve lived together. Sometimes, he brings them home and bangs them in his room.
I don’t get jealous. Moreover, I don’t try to pretend that our fun together is anything more than what it is – fun. Some guys fall for their roomies and end up getting hurt.
4. I know the signal
When it comes time to help him get rid of stress, we have a signal. What’s weird is the whole thing is intuitive. Usually, he raises his eyebrow while laying back in his bed.
That’s when I reach for the gold and do my thing. There’s never a mess because I’m a guzzler. Yep, I always swallow him up.
5. Sometimes we kiss
A long time ago, I learned not to initiate kissing with a dude who is curious. In Chuck’s case, I’ve always let him take the lead. You may be wondering how it goes?
It’s pretty simple. While I am doing my thing on him, I let Chuck guide the process. Sometimes, he pulls me up from my chin and we make out. Other times, it doesn’t happen.
I am a gay man and I don’t try to hide it. In my experience, when your male roommate knows your story, he’s more open to exploring.
Some people might say what I am doing is giving him free brojobs but I don’t care. Nobody is being hurt. His needs are being met and so are mine. Make sense?
If you’ve ever had the kind of roomie I’ve described here, you already know how all of this goes. Hopefully, what I’ve shared will help guys who are new to these kinds of situations.
*Name changed per author’s request